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Gentle ways to actually start
ADHD-friendly tricks for getting moving when your brain is stuck.
Updated 2026-06-14
If you are frozen, you are not lazy and nothing is wrong with you. Task paralysis is real, and it usually means the task feels too big to hold all at once. Here are some things that help.
- Shrink the step. If "do the dishes" feels heavy, re-break it down until the first step is just "put one cup in the sink." Tiny is allowed.
- Use Focus mode for one step. The full-screen view hides everything else, so there is only the one thing to look at.
- Set a 5-minute timer and promise to quit when it dings. You almost never will, but knowing you can makes starting safe.
- Trust the next step. You do not have to plan the whole task. Molehill is holding the rest for you. Just do the one on screen.
- Lower the bar to "badly." A messy, half-done version beats a perfect one that never happens.
Body doubling, on your Lock Screen
Add the Just One Step widget so your next step is always visible without opening the app. Sometimes just seeing it sitting there is the nudge that gets you moving.
And if today is not the day? That is okay. Molehill will be holding everything exactly where you left it, no penalty, whenever you come back.
Related guides
Using Focus mode and timers
A full-screen view of one step, with an optional timer and a Lock Screen Live Activity.
The Just One Step widget
Add your next step to the Lock Screen and Home Screen, and why it shows only one.
Choosing the detail (and re-breaking down)
Big Picture, Balanced, or Every Tiny Step, and how to redo a breakdown when the steps are not right.
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